Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Friday, June 27, 2014

Tiny Living and Why It's Awesome!!!

Okay, so I am seriously crushing on the idea of Tiny Living!


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If you are unfamiliar with the movement, you can read about it here or here or here or here, and this is a great documentary about it (I think we watched the documentary on Netflix).


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In a nutshell, "tiny living" just means living in a far-smaller-than-average home (most of the tiny houses I've seen examples of are between 100 and 400 square feet, but there is no stringent definition that I'm aware of). People live this way for a lot of reasons: it is less expensive (smaller square footage to heat, cool, keep clean, etc.), it is "greener" (smaller space = smaller carbon footprint and fewer materials utilized in construction), it is a simpler way to live (less space for living means less space to store superfluous stuff).


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While I wouldn't really categorize us as super environmentalists (I mean, we do drive a Prius, and we recycle, but that's about the extent of it), these reasons are really why it appeals to us as well!


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As someone who is currently paying two mortgages every month, the prospect of living mortgage free is extremely appealing. And it's actually a realistic possibility as the cost of materials and land would be far less than the cost of your average, standard-sized home. I can understand how monthly expenses would be considerably less in a tiny house as well. Smaller space means smaller utility usage. Less square footage means less cleaning (a major bonus in my mind), and fewer things that can break and fewer elements to maintain.


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Just stop for a minute and imagine what your personal budget would look like if you didn't have a monthly mortgage or rent payment. Conventional wisdom says that housing costs account for 30% of our monthly expenses. Even if your mortgage is only half of your housing expenses, what would it mean for your monthly expenses to be decreased by 15%? Just for the sake of argument, let's say that Joe and Sarah make $3,000/month. That means that, on average, $1,000 will be spent on their housing expenses. If, by transitioning to a "tiny living" situation, they are able to decrease their housing expenses by half, that is an additional $500 per month that they will no longer be spending on housing. And since living small means living with less superfluous stuff, that extra $500 won't be spent on things.


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And this is a very conservative estimate. Many who live in tiny houses are able to use green, sustainable energy sources such as wind generators or solar panels to further decrease their cost of living and their environmental impact, which is another big win-win!


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There is also a huge element of freedom associated with tiny living as many tiny houses are built on mobile platforms; however, even if your tiny house is stationary, the fiscal realities of tiny living give you a lot of options for traveling and adventures! I mean, not only will you have more liquid income, but your monthly expense needs will be decreased dramatically enough for you to leave the "rat race."


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If you think about it, at some point along the line, society decided that "success" was defined or proven by how much stuff we own. People who make oodles and gobs of money will obviously live in bigger houses, drive bigger cars, or at least have more cars to choose from, wear more expensive clothing, and own lots of expensive toys.


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But do all of these things add up to happier or more content living? You don't have to look very far before you realize that the answer to that question is a resounding, "No!" The ultra-rich of our societies are often the most obviously unhappy as evidenced by the myriad news stories about famous marriages crumbling, celebrities overdosing on drugs, and the list goes on and on. Of course, that's not necessarily a picture of average life; however, I think many of the problems found in the highest levels of society translate to the average middle-class family.


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Most of the people I know would fall into the "average income" category. And what that most often looks like is both husband and wife working at least 40 hours per week, children involved in a plethora of extracurricular activities, and everyone thoroughly overcommitted and often exhausted. This is what "normal" looks like.

Normal is a lie.

All of these practical reasons are great rationale for choosing the tiny lifestyle, but I think my favorite part reason is the amount of creativity that goes into building and living in a tiny house! Everything from storage to kitchen solutions has to be creative to work with considerably smaller than average space, and I love that! I love that every part of a tiny house is totally customized and fitted to our needs and the way that we like to live!


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So, all that to say, I really love the idea of tiny living! I even have an entire Pinterest board dedicated to the concept! And, since both of our houses are on the market and will, hopefully, sell very soon, I'm praying that some form of tiny living may be in our not-so-distant future!


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Bottom line: tiny living does not equal a small life!

Hope you have a great weekend!

His,

Saturday, June 7, 2014

On Perfectionism, Platitudes, and Prettiness.

Hello blog world!

I realize that I totally left you hanging on the "Italy PDA" story, and I'm sorry about that! I Promise to finish it, and the ending really is worth coming back for!


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So much has happened and continues to happen here in our little corner of the world, and I seem to continually find myself in the Place of having too much to say and being overwhelmed by all that I have failed to blog and then deciding to move forward by Posting . . . nothing! (This is not a new Problem for me, and it stems from my arch-nemesis: Perfectionism)


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Life is hard, and the last six months have been very tough for our little family. I feel like we're finally coming out of the fog, but it's a Process. I don't mean to be cryptic, but there are still a lot of things that have gone on that are really hard to Put into words. Maybe I will at some Point. Suffice it to say we would definitely appreciate your Prayers! We are Physically healthy and our God is the great Provider, but life has a way of beating us up.

If you are the Praying kind, here are a couple of other things to add to your list:

~ My best friend's little boy, who was born with Cystic Fibrosis, was diagnosed with Neuroblastoma this week. Read their story here. Please Pray for Logan, his family, and his medical team as they move forward into treatment. If you'd like to do something tangible to reach out to this family, there is a GoFundMe here:

~ My brother-in-law's mother Passed away yesterday. Please Pray for Jesse, my sister (his wife) Kindra, and Jesse's family as they grieve this loss.


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There's something about hearing a bunch of Platitudes that makes life's hard things feel harder. Well, if not harder, they add an edge of annoyance to an already difficult situation. In all of these Painful things, I find myself at a loss for words, and I Pray that I don't fall into the fear Place. The Place where we're so afraid of saying the wrong thing that we say the worn-out thing. The thing that has been said so many times that no matter how well-meant, it grates.

What is the remedy to this fear Place? I think it is to be brave. Brave enough to say hard things, or nothing at all. Brave enough to just hold on to each other in the midst of the storm that threatens to tear you apart. Brave enough to resist the temptation to lean on the tired, Predictable Platitude that holds no true comfort, but lets you feel like you're "off the hook." Brave enough to go to the empathy Place. The Place that truly feels another's Pain.


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On a slightly different note, we now have not only one but two houses on the market! That's right! Our house in Iowa has been without a rental tenant since November 15th of 2013, and on the market since January. Since the market in Florida seems to be hotter than Iowa, we made the tough decision to list this house on Wednesday. We anticipate that the Florida house will sell more quickly, and when it does we will make our way to Iowa to fill the empty house with our furniture in the hopes that a "staged" home will be Prettier and will sell more easily than an empty one.

After that, we don't really know what comes next, but we are confident that God's Plan and timing are Perfect, and He always knows what He's doing! (And that's no Platitude!)

And now for some Prettiness to end this not-so-Pretty post :)


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Thanks for reading, and thanks for praying!

Friday, December 11, 2009

A Priveledge to Suffer for Him

Ummm . . . wow! I just listened to this episode of Focus on the Family, and I am encouraged and blown away and challenged to live for Christ! If Ken Hutcherson can be such a bright light for Jesus with all that he is going through, how can I NOT be, as blessed as I am?

Definitely check it out, just click here, then click on the link that says "Listen Now" to hear this incredible story.

<3,

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Don't worry . . . I'm still alive . . . I think . . .

Okay, so I know I have been M.I.A. for the past couple of weeks, and I am very sorry! I also know that I started this stellar idea of the 26 days of Thanksgiving, and only got about halfway through (if that), so I am sorry to those of you who were waiting with baited breath for "K" through "Z." I may finish those at some point, but with the crazy whirlwind of my life at this point, I'm not making any promises!

I have so much to tell you all, and so many incredible stories to share, so stay tuned, and I will post as much as I can as soon as possible. I also have the November newsletter up on the Burden Bearers International blog, so be sure to hop over and take a look at that!

I hope you all had a blessed Thanksgiving, and that you're enjoying a wonderful Christmas season!

:),

Friday, April 17, 2009

~ My Husband Rocks! ~ the little things


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Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years.
~ Simone Signoret


Anyone who has been married fo any length of time can attest to the veracity of this statement. I know this may seem a little bit like a no-brainer, but this was a huge a-ha! for me.

A great marriage is not truly about a ton of huge, monumental accomplishments. Great marriage is in the details, the small, seemingly-inconsequential moments. All the little things that stitch two people into one. This miracle, this God-given treasure, this mystery that confounds those who have been at it for half a century almost as much as it confounds those of us who've been at it for a year and a half. :)

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Austin is great at the little things. He remembers to call when he's travelling, just to let me know he's okay. He always parks on the far side of the driveway so I can have the close spot. He stands in the kitchen and hugs on me and talks to me about his day while we wait for dinner to come out of the oven. He holds my hand in public, and while riding in the car. He brings me "thinking of you" presents from his business trips. He always looks for ways to get to visit my family as often as possible - even though it kills him to be away from work, and it is a very long drive. He thinks through every angle of every decision so he can be confident that he is doing what is best for our family. He gets so excited about what God is doing in our lives and our friends and family. He kisses me, even though kissing isn't really his "thing" :) - He reaches for me in the middle of the night, while he's sleeping. He answers my phone calls in the middle of the day - when I know he is almost always in the middle of something. He comes home for lunch as often as he can. He lets me be myself. He can always make me laugh!

God, thank you for the wonderful blessings you give me through my husband!

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Hope you all have a wonderful Friday, and a fantastic weekend!

Friday, December 26, 2008

~ My Husband Rocks! ~ Sharing Life


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Good morning, and welcome to another week of ~ My Husband Rocks! ~ Fridays!!! I hope that you all enjoyed a most wonderful Christmas! I know that we have so far! We had a somewhat harrowing (at the beginning) yet thankfully uneventful drive out to Colorado to spend the holidays with my family. Thanks to my amazing hubby and the fact that we had another friend riding with us, I did not have to drive at all (which I greatly appreciated)!

I am so thankful for my fantastick husband this week! (I'm thankful for him all the time, but there's just something about Christmas that makes everything all warm and fuzzy, you know?) I am so appreciative that he brought me to Colorado to see my family for Christmas! This has been one of the greatest gifts for me! I have also been reminded very intensely of the blessing we have in the form of his financial savvy! Because of his skill in this area, and great blessing from the Lord, we are able to have and do and experience so many things that I never would have imagined possible! I also love how he is able to make people laugh in almost any situation! He is also so hand that he was able to fix my parent's vacuum, and my niece's (well my cousin's daughter's) Elmo doll :)

One moment of this past week really sticks out in my mind as a reason why my husband rocks! After the Christmas Eve service at my parents' church they had my grandparents and their new neighbors over for supper. Their neighbors moved to Colorado from Texas, and the wife is originally from Germany. They have led fascinating lives, and we had a great time talking to them. At one point they both stated that they sincerely enjoyed traveling alone - and had done so many times before they were married. Austin said that he would rather have someone to share it with, to which they responded that you take in so much more of the sights and culture when you are there alone. Austin's response just melted my heart: "I would rather miss some of that, and have someone to share it with." Later on we were talking about this, and he told me, "Life is meant to be shared!" I am so very grateful that he chose to share his life with me, and that I get to share mine with him! Thank you so much, hunnybear! I love you!!!
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If you're not a blogger, but still want the world to know about your amazing husband (or wife, or husband to be, or wife to be, etc.) leave a shout-out in the form of a comment! If you're unable to comment, e-mail me at katylinvw [at] yahoo [dot] com and I'll add your shout out to this post!

As always, on Fridays From*me Tees will refund your shipping on any order of two or more items if you mention the great adventure and ~my husband rocks! Fridays~ in the "how did you hear about us?" section of your order form, so run on over there and check them out, too! Thank you From*me Tees!

Thanks for reading, everybody! Have a fantastic weekend!